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My full and kooky life as a homeschooling mommy to 2 great kids, raising a child with HLHS (Hypolastic Left Heart Syndrome), coping with depression, following Jesus, and being much too camera happy.

My mom just got discharged from the hospital yesterday, which was her third admission since June. She has masses in her bladder that needs removing and now the doctors just found out that the left and right arteries needed stents. So last Monday she went in for an emergency cath and got a stent placed in her right side, but its calcification took the cardiologist longer than usual. And the ultrasound showed that she had a kidney stone that needs removing.

Right now, it’s all a timing scenario. She will have another operation to work on her left artery and be on blood thinners for a month before she can undergo the operation for the bladder mass removal. The kidney stone hasn’t been brought up yet. It’s been an onslaught of phone calls for me to translate at any time of day. I’m trying to stay positive and seeing this as a challenge to test my patience! And my mom is so impatient with wanting the bladder surgery soon, because she has to go to the bathroom every 30 minutes or less and thst disrupts her sleeping and quality of life.

This waiting is a safety protocol so that she can take her blood thinners for a month before any operations.

Thankfully, Ellis is well and no emergencies on this home front. Writing this as kids are at their swimming lessons. Hope everyone is staying well and enjoying this summer!!

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19 responses to “On call for mom’s endless emergencies”

  1. Pepper Avatar

    So sorry, Esther. Praying for your mom’s health issues and also for you.

    1. singlikewildflowers Avatar

      Thank you! It’s been an ongoing issue. The clogged arteries were completely new and that put a wrench in the bladder operation plans.

  2. Linda Schaub Avatar

    Esther – I continue to keep your entire family in my prayers … thankfully Ellis is doing well because you don’t need one more worry right now. I never learned how to swim – good for you getting the kids swimming lessons.

    1. singlikewildflowers Avatar

      Thank you, Linda! I can’t believe she’s going through another major health issue. It’s been ongoing and so many emergency visits, admissions, and surgeries. She has 3 surgeries going forward. Whew…and I haven’t even asked another my dad’s glaucoma.
      Our homeschooling teacher has been on me to take the kids for swimming lessons. Thankfully, one of our 4-H friends recommended a friendly teacher and kids were ready to take the lessons.

      1. Linda Schaub Avatar

        Your poor mom and it’s good that you are available to be the conduit between your mom and her medical providers and translate. But I know it is rough on you as well. Learning to swim at an early age is good and that’s good that kids were ready and didn’t feel pressured to learn how to swim.

      2. singlikewildflowers Avatar

        Yes, I feel blessed to help her. Since I’m getting more information about her medical history, it’s getting easier to navigate. Waiting for insurance approval to move forward with her angiogram.

      3. Linda Schaub Avatar

        It’s too bad you’re not living nearby – you are indeed a blessing to your mom, both your parents at this time as you help them navigate their medical conditions.

      4. singlikewildflowers Avatar

        Thank you, Linda! This summer has been quite a medical journey for my parents. My mom just had her heart cath today and got a balloon in one of her arteries. My dad had his other eye glaucoma surgery last Tuesday.

      5. Linda Schaub Avatar

        Well thank goodness Ellis has stayed healthy because you sure didn’t/don’t need a trifecta of family members down. I hope your mom and dad are recovering from their procedures with no issues.

  3. Lakshmi Bhat Avatar

    Praying for your mother’s good health.

    1. singlikewildflowers Avatar

      Thank you so much!!

  4. vkonstantinova76 Avatar
    vkonstantinova76

    I wish to your mom a good health! 🙏

    1. singlikewildflowers Avatar

      Thank you! We need it. It’s been quite a month. Since March, it’s been ongoing.

  5. heavenstobetty Avatar

    Sending prayers for your family, your mom’s medical team, and her upcoming procedures. 🙏🩷

    1. singlikewildflowers Avatar

      Thank you! Prayers are appreciated. Thankfully at this hospital admission she met a Korean American cardiologist who can explain to her what’s happening. And he’s been helping with coordinating when to schedule the bladder surgery. Last week’s admission was a miracle, because her heart was in terrible shape.

  6. Liz Gauffreau Avatar

    I’m so sorry to hear about your mother’s need for surgery! Sending healing thoughts.

    1. singlikewildflowers Avatar

      Thank you, Liz! We’re waiting for insurance approval to schedule her next angiogram.

      1. Liz Gauffreau Avatar

        You’re welcome, Esther. 🥰

  7. ghostmmnc Avatar

    That swimming pool water looks so refreshing! … Sending good thoughts for your Mom <3

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